HEALING CHILDHOOD WOUNDS
From my experience in working with 100's of clients, I found that we all have some unhealed childhood wounds. Without healing our childhood wounds and forgiving our parents, we stay emotionally stuck at the age of our earliest wounds, and because this causes us to repeat the cycle of suffering, we keep experiencing an adult version of our childhood wounds.
Here's an example from my own experience. My daughter, at age 9 years old, was in the hospital for major surgery. After the stress of the anticipation and outcome of the surgery and staying all night afterwards, I was exhausted and felt like I was getting sick. The nurse noticed my symptoms and suggested I go home for a good nights sleep, because the nurses would be there to watch after her. That if I get sick, I would be no help at all. I then asked my daughter, and she told me also to go home to sleep. I had no idea how this would play out in the future. She has now related to me that she was freaked out all night. She took on the belief that she couldn't depend on me, that the world was unsafe, and she felt abandoned. That I should have never left her in the hospital by herself. And so, this made an imprint in her subconscious mind and body. Now whenever this issue is triggered by a current day experience (ex: I forget to call or father leaves or some other behavior), the original emotional wound is activated and she drops into an unconscious reaction. For all intents and purposes, she becomes her wounded nine-year-old self, and because she feels the same pain she felt then, she reacts by lashing out or shutting down.
According to the Law of Attraction, we unconsciously attract people who trigger our emotional wounds, and this is why a person with abandonment issues attracts potential partners who have commitment fears. Unhealed emotional wounds can prevent you from meeting your ideal partner or soul mate, and even if you do find each other, the emotional wounds is known to sabotage even the most ideal partnership.
Forgiveness is the key to emotional freedom, but, in most cases, forgiveness is easier said than done.
On the surface, forgiving your mom (or anyone for that matter) may seem insignificant but forgiving your mother or father is actually the best thing you can do for the quality of your life. Parental blame and resentment perpetuate a cycle of emotional pain and suffering that can negatively affect your adult relationships, finances, and overall wellbeing. As the wounds mature manifesting can be problematic, even difficult to pursue one's dreams and desires. Because an emotional reaction is an automatic response to an unhealed wound, there is little or no control over emotions or behavior, and this dynamic can result in a series of current day relationship issues.
Many adult children protect themselves from parental judgment and manipulation by closing their hearts and putting up energetic barriers, it doesn’t protect us from emotional pain because the shield actually keeps the pain inside while it also prevents healing.
Finally, always remember that forgiveness is never for the person being forgiven. Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself.
Many people have a hard time releasing their pain, from childhood wounds, this can be done quickly and easily with ThetaHealing®. I have helped 100’s of people heal from health issues, clear blocks from past and present and heal their relationship with money. Resulting in feeling healthier and more energetic. Perhaps I can help you have more freedom and begin manifesting everything you desire in your life.
Here's an example from my own experience. My daughter, at age 9 years old, was in the hospital for major surgery. After the stress of the anticipation and outcome of the surgery and staying all night afterwards, I was exhausted and felt like I was getting sick. The nurse noticed my symptoms and suggested I go home for a good nights sleep, because the nurses would be there to watch after her. That if I get sick, I would be no help at all. I then asked my daughter, and she told me also to go home to sleep. I had no idea how this would play out in the future. She has now related to me that she was freaked out all night. She took on the belief that she couldn't depend on me, that the world was unsafe, and she felt abandoned. That I should have never left her in the hospital by herself. And so, this made an imprint in her subconscious mind and body. Now whenever this issue is triggered by a current day experience (ex: I forget to call or father leaves or some other behavior), the original emotional wound is activated and she drops into an unconscious reaction. For all intents and purposes, she becomes her wounded nine-year-old self, and because she feels the same pain she felt then, she reacts by lashing out or shutting down.
According to the Law of Attraction, we unconsciously attract people who trigger our emotional wounds, and this is why a person with abandonment issues attracts potential partners who have commitment fears. Unhealed emotional wounds can prevent you from meeting your ideal partner or soul mate, and even if you do find each other, the emotional wounds is known to sabotage even the most ideal partnership.
Forgiveness is the key to emotional freedom, but, in most cases, forgiveness is easier said than done.
On the surface, forgiving your mom (or anyone for that matter) may seem insignificant but forgiving your mother or father is actually the best thing you can do for the quality of your life. Parental blame and resentment perpetuate a cycle of emotional pain and suffering that can negatively affect your adult relationships, finances, and overall wellbeing. As the wounds mature manifesting can be problematic, even difficult to pursue one's dreams and desires. Because an emotional reaction is an automatic response to an unhealed wound, there is little or no control over emotions or behavior, and this dynamic can result in a series of current day relationship issues.
Many adult children protect themselves from parental judgment and manipulation by closing their hearts and putting up energetic barriers, it doesn’t protect us from emotional pain because the shield actually keeps the pain inside while it also prevents healing.
Finally, always remember that forgiveness is never for the person being forgiven. Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself.
Many people have a hard time releasing their pain, from childhood wounds, this can be done quickly and easily with ThetaHealing®. I have helped 100’s of people heal from health issues, clear blocks from past and present and heal their relationship with money. Resulting in feeling healthier and more energetic. Perhaps I can help you have more freedom and begin manifesting everything you desire in your life.